When do you decide that enough is enough? When do you decide that the thoughts inside your head are so troubling that you need outside intervention? When do you start worrying over whether or not you could actually act on those thoughts? And how do you stop them from coming? The cymbalta isn't working, and right now I'm seeking shelter inside a bottle of wine. I am a VERY addictive person. Is there such a thing as a function addict? How do I know if I'm addicted? Do I need help? For everything? When is it time?